Monday, January 5, 2009

With Our Special Friend " Good Communicatin = Good Relation"

When we accepted by or accept someone to be our special friend,
commitment is the number one to build a good relation among us.
What is the good relation ? is a relation based on a strong commitment,
not far from honest, and independent on trust behavior.

A relation will fail in a half story caused by misunderstanding.
This can caused by bad communication. Less ability in communication and
personal ego are two factors make a broken communication.

Something stupid small can arise be a big fire cause wrong communication.
But, big problem can be cleared by the good way communication.
Good or bad of our relations depend on how good or bad we communicate with
our special friend.

Be more care full in speak to our girl friend. Most of them are sensitive.
Smile is the best first way to make next situation more comfortable.
Listening is an important ability in communication, but silence is not always gold.
And off course many girl need more care from us.

There is a good sentences for man “ To happy with a woman, you just must love her a lot and understanding her only just a little”. For a woman “ To happy with a man, you just understanding him a lot, and love him a little”.

Your special friend is a human of course. So, keep the human basic behavior like hospitality, honest, trust, caring, kind behavior, etc.

In other word, in build relation with our special fried is not far from how to build a relation with the other human. But, our special friend is the people that we want to accompany us in all time with full commitment. The next, we just not only live together, will there the son, the daughter, your family and her family.

I mean, our special friend is the most important people for us, so bring our good relation with her by through good communication.