Sometimes things outside the marriage can cause a husband to seem preoccupied and a woman will wonder how to tell if your husband is still in love with you. The wife might start feeling neglected if her husband only gives a quick peck on the cheek instead of the long kiss and hearty embrace that he used to give. The husband might say I love you but if the wife is feeling insecure about the marriage, the words I love you might seem hollow and routine. If you are feeling this way about your husband and marriage, no time should be wasted in wondering if your husband still loves you or not. You need to get to the bottom of things and face the truth if indeed your husband and marriage are starting to drift away. Many times these fears will be unfounded and yet how can you know?
First of all, you can look for some signs or behavior patterns that are a pretty good indication that your husband is still very much in love with you. One of these signs that he still loves you is the amount of time that the two of you spend together and is it quality time? By quality time, I mean do you share experiences and make each other laugh? Is your husband anxious to tell you about his day and truly interested in what you tell him in return? If you ask him to help you with something is he quick to comply? If he pats you whenever he is close to you or quickly steals a kiss when the children aren't looking, these are all good signs that you have a loving husband.
On the other hand, if you have to nag him to get little things done around the house and he constantly complains while doing it. If he would rather watch television than discuss anything with you or spend time with the children, these could be signs that you have something to worry about.
Perhaps your biggest concern should be if he is always making excuses to be away from home and being too busy with work or other matters to spend quality time with you or the children. As hard as it may be for you, this is the time that you must insist upon the two of you sitting down and having a serious discussion as to where your marriage is heading.
Instead of constantly being confused by things that your husband does, and wondering if he still loves you, there are many things that you can say and do to keep your marriage from heading toward divorce.
When you are in doubt about the stability of your marriage there are right things to say and do and wrong things that can bring things to a point of no return. At this time you need to use some special techniques to make your husband fall in love with you forever.
