How does that saying go? Admitting you have a problem is first step towards recovery? That's right - same philosophy also applies to marriage. You have to be able to recognize your faults. Don't be afraid to admit you have them because only by admitting you have a problems you will be able to take necessary steps to avoid them in future. Every marriage is different and every couple have their own issues, but here are 3 biggest mistakes commonly committed by millions of couples.
Cheating.
Oh yes. We all know cheating is bad and we should not cheat on our partners, but why so many of us still do it? Avoiding cheating is easy if you know reasons why married people are cheating in the first place. Reasons may vary from couple to couple. It could be that your partner feels unloved and is looking for love somewhere else, maybe he/she is bored of you and looking for something new and often cheating is committed as revenge. Learn to recognize the cause in its route and eliminate it before it has got out of your hands.
Blaming and Criticising.
That right. It is so easy to blame someone else, even if fault lies within yourself. It is important to make yourself heard and point out to your partner what makes you unhappy, but it has to be done in calm and constructive way. If blaming and criticizing your partner has become your habit, then problems are not far away.
Not Seeing Need to Change.
Huge mistake which is committed by many of us day in and day out. So many people wrongly think that problem lies within their partner and they are not doing anything wrong, therefore there is no need for them to change anything about their behaviour. Well let me tell you this- it is absolutely wrong. In most cases partners are equally guilty. They both have their faults. You must be able to recognize your faults and correct them, before things can get any better.
