Let me paint you a picture here. Married or in serious relationship - you have been with your partner for a while now. It was great at the beginning. You were madly in love with each other and it seemed that nothing on this planet, or indeed the universe, would be powerful enough to separate you. But as it happens with all good things, it wasn't destine to last. Petty arguments between you erupted more and more often and your relationship, which once was so amazing, is now heading for the rocks at the speed of bullet train. You spend your days barely talking to each other and sometimes it seems that you are living like two strangers who for some reason are forced to live together under one roof.
But what if I would say that it is possible to bring the happy days back? Return to the times when everything was absolutely great. Every day spent with your partner seemed like priceless gem, which you will treasure for the rest of your life. That it is possible to turn your marriage in to loving relationship where partners treasure and respect each other. No more arguments, no more shouts and tears. All that I ask from you is for you to be sure that you, despite everything, still love your partner and are ready to do whatever it takes to save your marriage. If you are asking how to save my marriage, I have an answer. Here I am giving you three very effective tips to start rebuilding your relationship. They may not seem obvious at the first glance, but trust me, they work.
Stop whining.
There is nothing more annoying than a whinny partner, who thinks that they spouse is bound by a law to listen to their constant complaining. They do not want to hear that. What your partner wants is strong reliable husband/wife they know they can turn to if things go seriously wrong and who will not refuse them support and advice. Think about it for a moment - would you trust your car to a mechanic who keeps saying that they cannot fix anything.
Show your partner what they are losing.
Yep. It is in human nature not to realise what they have until they have lost it. Show your partner what they may lose if nothing will change. For women it could be a new sexy dress or stylish hear cut, for men new ripped gym body what does the trick. Whatever you do, make sure you show your partner what they stand to lose if they don't take action.
Make him/her jealous.
Yes I know it's an old trick which you used in high school. And yes I know you think you are too old for this kind of actions and it's childish and it's silly and you rather leave this for your teenage kids. It may be all of above things, but it is very effective. It may be a long time ago since your partner graduated from the high school, but trust me, some things never change. But be careful, do not get carried away or otherwise it will bring more problems than it will solve.
